so today i tore apart my dash looking for that in-line relay. COULD NOT FIND A THING! its a blue and a black wire coming from the outlet, then that goes into a BIG bunch of wires (that are wrapped...grr...). they then pop into a wiring harness, then that goes into the firewall, outside, to the external fuse-box, then back into the internal fuse box, and terminate there (or that's how i followed them, i think). i COULD NOT find the in-line relay...where is it and wtf does it look like? im lost. we had 4 guys looking for stuff everywhere and just couldnt find a thing... HELP! thanks!