There are dozens of threads on this topic over the years.
There are production variances and fuel variances
There are heavy and light feet.
All make a difference. Lots of folks run 87 just fine. Lots of folks notice sharper throttle response and overall better running engine using 89. Few notice anything with 92 unless you have a tuner to take advantage. I have a good running motor, and it runs much smoother when filled with 89. My RAM has the 8 speed and it makes a subtle difference there to. If your engine is kind of a dog, you may not notice a thing as other factors are limiting.
The PCM sets engine timing based on a number of things, the more advanced the timing the better they run, but then there is the risk of pre-detonation events which are hard on an engine. So the PCM advances the timing until it starts seeing pre-events and pulls back a bit.. a lot for an event. Running 89 allows the timing to be advanced further and reduce the chance for a big timing pull... but many butt meters don't notice. It takes awhile, maybe a tank of fuel, for the PCM to complete adjustments, so its not something you'll notice immediately, so folks have a tendency to miss the benefits (if any).
That being said, it depends on the engine and your butt calibration, use what feels best for you, there is no right or wrong answer here
Oh, a tank from a busy gas station, with fresh fuel and low ethanol content, is going to run better than a tank from a quiet station with stale fuel and high moisture content, and you would notice that more than the 87/89 difference.