Had a lot of what you described early on in the thread. I'll explain my experience thus far and what is currently ongoing. I have a 2015 EcoDiesel with 26k miles, not sure how/if the transmission differs. Fortunately I am still under manufacturers warranty.
Drove ~2.5 hours, all highway, last Tuesday with no issues. Shut the Jeep down on the street to go check into the hotel. Came back out, and it was in complete limp mode, throwing every error possible (service transmission/service 4wd/traction control/etc/etc). I tried resetting the battery, hoping it had locked itself up or something with no luck. We had drove down for a concert, so I left it on the street with the intention of getting it towed back to the dealership at home the next morning (~130 miles, AAA+ covers 100 miles). Go out in the morning with a hail mary and try starting it, and it starts up with no issue what-so-ever. So we packed up and left - drove flawlessly on the trip home. I am still peeved but need to get to work, so drop it off at the dealership after work Wednesday night for a Thursday morning appt. They diagnose a faulty control module, so put it on order (got in Wednesday of this week) and work to install it. Fortunately I am out of town the second half of last week, so no skin off my back.
Well I just got a call from them about an hour ago saying that the new part made the transmission go from bad to worse and it wouldn't move at all. They considered replacing the module again to see if it was a bad module, but opted to replace the entire transmission instead. Looking like another week until the unit comes in + whatever it takes to actually get the new unit installed. May be a dramatic example, but figured I'd throw in my $0.02 since I'm living through it right now as well.