Welcome to the forum...
I will take a shot at some of your items, not all.
I would take the ProComp MTs if you asked, but for 30 bucks more a tire I would go with the KM2s - why? Becuase I have them and like them.
There is a sale on the OME lift kit at Northridge 4x4 with free shipping from Dave...OTH, if you need to go cheap, just get a budget boost for a few hundred. Of the others you listed, BDS seems to do a great job, stay away from some of the cheaper set ups - remember, you often get what you pay for and then you can keep on paying to fix things they did not take into account....a word of advise.
Oh, and also, don't lift higher than you need to....IMO - see the FAQ section at the top of this forum...good reading for the newbs.
08 JK 23S - Colorado Jeep Club No. 204
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