Thanks for the replies guys....well it turns out I needed to get a 17mm hex that I could use on a 3/8's ratchet. I looked around a few stores, and could not find one that size, the biggest they had was 10mm. I decided to go to the hardware store, and took a 17mm x 2 inch bolt, and screwed on two nuts, with this other kind of nut in the center which is fat on one side, and skinny on the other (I'm not sure of the name of this). This seems to work well, I was able to use my 3/8's ratchet with a spark plug socket and fitted the bolt on, it fit perfectlly into the hex fittings on the transmission, and I was able to get them out easily. I wish I could get a photo up here for the others to see, I think I spent only a $1.50 or so when everything was said and done, certainly worth the small investment.
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