If she vents about her relationship problems on facebook, you need to stay away. She has a lot of growing up to do.
If she seems kinda unstable this early into your "relationship" It's only going to get worse.
I find this extremely ironic considering he is posting about it on here. Wouldn't that be the same as posting it on facebook?
OP, you're young and it seems you just meet this girl. Take your time. Remember not to generalize and that post might or might not be about you. The best way to figure this out is ask her, not us. Ask her about or go ahead and ask her out. That will save you a lot of time and headache .
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Originally Posted by -Deepskyy-
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Do yourself a favor and stop dealing with this chick. It's issues like this that causes lots of young people to make poor choices. Case and point alowing her to smoke in your Jeep. If you hook up with girl and get her pregnant your life will drasticly change, and not for the better. Stop calling her, and if you want a relationship with a lady find a girl that has a REAL job a car and HER OWN PLACE(or roomates) wasting time for easy *** can ruin your life later on. I know its not my life, but i can see what is coming.
I almost had something with a crazy chick at my work once. She's cute and all, but posts that she can never find a guy to treat her right. Um, okay. She gets mad at me one day because I don't go clear out of my way to say hi to her.
Do what I did, RUN THE **** AWAY and never look back.
We had fun again tonight, but then things got weird... She calls this girl "friend" of hers and it turns out the girl is actually a girl she is in love with... She tells me im 2nd she is 1st before anything... That girl then says she doesnt want to hang out with me and her.. Just her and Her... cept the girl im with asks me if i can pick her up and drop them both off at the Hookah bar... I laughed so hard and said F no... Eventually the other girl agreed to go with me and her... Within like 20 minutes being there i got pulled away by a bunch of guys marines mainly we had a great time talking to eachother man on man ect... Later in the night it turns out they hookah bar took our hookah which of course i had to pay for away because both those girls walked out of the store for awhile..
So i talked to the owner to get another one back out and he talked to me in the back and told me some things about her saying to stay away ect.. So After we got drunk (Im a heavy weight btw it takes a lot for me to get drunk) she was more open to me so i got the idea she really was into me.. but only into me for money and sex... So after i dropped her off home i went back to the hookah bar talked to the owner for like an hour... He mentions some guy who went through the same thing I am.. I stayed for like 30 minutes to get my bearings and not drive so tipsy.. The guy he talked about shows up and we talk about her.. Turns out she did the same things to him she is is starting to do to me... EXACTLY the same.. Money, sex, acting like she is interested in me.. but has other boyfriends and girls friends...
So me an him talked for like 2 hours.. i got his number im.. Im taking his and your all advice and im staying away from her... deleting my facebook account, not talking to her.. she is major trouble.. and after me for a free ride and money and stuff.. I was just too lonely.. and stupid to relise it i guess...
So yea im an idiot.. but im young... well 26, but inexperienced and i learned from this... But at least a few good thing came out of this... I learned, kinda broke out of my shell, and met a few nice guy friends who gave me their numbers to hang out and chill with... Which is great, that and I now know what to look for in girls if this happens again.
Im sorry for the weird thread and all, but I trust you guys more then anyone actually.. Jeep people as i see it gatta stick with Jeepers.. so thats why i asked for help
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Well like I said just ignore her and it'll work out. Now you have the possibility of a threesome and adding her friend to the bootycall list as well. All is not lost though, you made some friends in the Corps and befriended a local business owner which can facilitate more opportunity for meeting women. There is no right girl for you so date as many as you can and never pass up a drunken phone call especially if she's with her bisexual friend and wants a ride home. Duh.