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post #16 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 01:25 PM
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The only advice an idiot like myself can offer is to just try and be a good person, ask her what it was about and if it wasnt about you then ask if there is anything you can do about it, obviously you do really like her. If it was about you then just ask her where she wants to go from there. Just be kind but at the same time get your answers so that you know where to go form there.

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post #17 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 01:59 PM
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Sounds like high school kids. Move on brother she will play with your head and leave you for dead.
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post #18 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 02:07 PM
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dude, it's been 5 days, pull back on the throttle.
x10. You gotta pull yourself together man! Go home, take a shower and wash off the estrogen patch she put on your skin.

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post #19 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 02:17 PM
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If this is about me and I intend to ask her.. What did I do wrong ?
Her making generic facebook posts and you wondering if they are about you is no way to communicate. You need to straight up ask her if it was about you or not.

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post #20 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 02:20 PM
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You should poke her....hehe

In all seriousness, i would just ask her what is going on...and i would have done that looong before i made a post asking a bunch of gear heads how a womans mind works. Youre going to get nowhere on here. Half of us dont even know how a transmission works.

But for real bro...its been 5 days and u want her to be your gf?
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dude, it's been 5 days, pull back on the throttle.

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post #22 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 02:45 PM
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Why do you say ITS ALWAYS the girl when it was YOU that is ASSUMING from a facebook post?

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post #23 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 03:02 PM Thread Starter
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Why do you say ITS ALWAYS the girl when it was YOU that is ASSUMING from a facebook post?
Because ive had this happen to me before from 3 other women in the last few years and we were see'ing eachother longer then 5 days.. 1 of them already had a BF but lured me into thinking she didnt.

Your right guys i'll wait and see.. Im just a little paranoid i guess.. but still..

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post #24 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 03:03 PM
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Treat her like crap the next time you go out and she will never leave.

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How bout you stop ***** footing around and ask her if she is ok

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post #26 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 03:33 PM
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I know that type. She is afraid to get attached and has a defense mechanism to sabotage any relationship. Best bet if you like her and want to continue on is to let her know things have gone faster than you wanted and you would like to scale things back to being more friends. Then treat her like a friend and let her come to you. If she tries to jump back into fooling around, let her know that you’re not sure “we are ready” because of the last time things went a little crazy. If she blows up, you know to drop her and get out. If she understands, she might be worth working it out. However, not knowing her, I would bail out from the mixed signals she is sending. Shouldn’t take more than a week to figure out one way or the other. The FB post is that she can’t communicate well and does not like potential confrontation.
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post #27 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 03:35 PM
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If she vents about her relationship problems on facebook, you need to stay away. She has a lot of growing up to do.


If she seems kinda unstable this early into your "relationship" It's only going to get worse.
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You should take her out for a nice seafood dinner than never call her again.

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post #29 of 155 Old 10-12-2012, 03:40 PM
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So you found a phycopathic woman who likes to play tricks with your head? Rare....

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How bout you stop ***** footing around and ask her if she is ok
I tried to call her house, her grandma answerd and she wasnt there.. Shes out ill try again in a few hours.. Thanks for the suggestions guys.

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