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Unread 01-05-2010, 01:47 PM   #16
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Unread 01-05-2010, 01:58 PM   #17
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We all go through something like this at one time or another. You are just unconsciously reminiscing about your past. This will go on for a while but it will pass. You are as normal as any of the rest of us, and it will all be good. Leave her behind. Do not call her. There is a reason that she is in the past. This will l happen to you from time to time, expecially at times that make you remember how it use to be (deaths etc.). It is normal!
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Unread 01-05-2010, 02:01 PM   #18
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Call her if you can. Just to see what she is up to. See what happens.
I vote this, however I would be a complete *** to her if the conversation doesn't go your way. This way there's never the "maybe I can see what she's up to" situation later on cause she'll still hate you. Therefor leaving you with the knowledge that things are gone, over and will never happen.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 02:04 PM   #19
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Unread 01-05-2010, 02:10 PM   #20
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my 2 cents... first question i have is why did you break up in the first place?

if it was for a stupid reason then calling her might not be a bad idea... but if it was because it just didn't work between the two of you then the chances of it working now are slim.

i went through it just like a lot of others... that's just my opinion from my own experience.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 02:20 PM   #21
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stop being a P ussy. this is jeep forum not some one please take my tampon out of my vag forum.
GTFO! Who invited this guy? O and mods, he's defeating the language filter :ban:
I agree with the call her just to see what's up. The mind is a crazy thing with a knack for instincts like that. No telling what's going on.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 03:02 PM   #22
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stop being a P****. this is jeep forum not some one please take my tampon out of my vag forum.
I just wanted to quote you (family friendly like) before you get banned, because that hit me funny.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 03:15 PM   #23
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Obviously you never got past her when she broke up with you. I'm not sure I buy into the "you never get over your first love" crap. Sounds like a cop out to me. You've been with 20 (!!!) girls since then (not necessarily bumping uglies), doesn't mean you've healed from the first one. You're just covering it up with all those other girls.

Hell I still dream occasionally about my ex (and some are pretty "intense" if you catch my drift) but the feelings are looooong gone. I usually wake up and think "wtf was that?!". It's been awhile though. You can't move on from a girl and be with a new one at the same time.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 03:30 PM   #24
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I totally feel ya dude...my first love was last year. I mean she was just awesome but her parents found out about us *ahem* and they ended it which was BS. We still saw each other secretly and i wrote her letters and bought her a phone. Then her weirdo parents found out and called my parents twice as if they cared. now idk what she's doing and I've had no closure or anything...that'll really f*** you up..its been about 3 months now and i haven't really dated anyone since. I haven't found anyone like her. I'd see what she's up to if i were you
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Forget the dreams. I keep dreaming about a girl I havent seen in just over 12 years. I pulled her up on face book yesterday and then pulled a picture of her kid. Guess who the kid looks like? To make it harder the kid was born just over 38 weeks after we saw each other for one last time at bike week. You do the math.
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Isnt This what facebook and myspace are for? Look her up!
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Unread 01-05-2010, 03:54 PM   #27
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I still think about my first girlfriend once in a while, even though that was about 13 years ago...

I'm happily married now and wouldn't have it any other way.

Do kinda wonder how her life has changed in the past 13 years...
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stop being a P ussy. this is jeep forum not some one please take my tampon out of my vag forum.
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Unread 01-05-2010, 04:34 PM   #29
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ok ok ok im sorry. it was just a joke. just trying make light of it. women break our hearts and it sucks man. seriously look her up on myspace or facebook. hope all goes well for you bud
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Unread 01-05-2010, 04:53 PM   #30
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Stop living in the past. Be happy with who you are with.

The only thing I see here, is that maybe you truly aren't happy with the girl you're with, and you are just looking for some sort of avenue for escape, which is fine. Call the ex and see what happens, but if you're rejected don't feel bad about it. Oh, and don't tell her about the dreams, could come across as creepy.
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