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Unread 10-03-2013, 12:43 PM   #16
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Unread 10-03-2013, 12:49 PM   #17
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Nothing good can come of this, I tell you.
I disagree. While I am not personally into this kink I do know a fair amount of people that are. They have been doing it for years and been married a long time. It all depends on the people. Polyamourous people have sucessful long term relationships and that is not much different. There is less of a humiliation aspect of it. You would be amazed at the people that you probably know that are into this they just are not public about it because the vast majority of people dont understand it and therefor condemn it.
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Unread 10-03-2013, 12:59 PM   #18
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I disagree. While I am not personally into this kink I do know a fair amount of people that are. They have been doing it for years and been married a long time. It all depends on the people. Polyamourous people have sucessful long term relationships and that is not much different. There is less of a humiliation aspect of it. You would be amazed at the people that you probably know that are into this they just are not public about it because the vast majority of people dont understand it and therefor condemn it.
Sounds like someone has something to share with the class.
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Unread 10-03-2013, 01:10 PM   #19
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Sounds like someone has something to share with the class.
LOL What would you like to know?
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[QUOTE=Overhead;17658665]this is also my second set of RC springs this year. I'd rather spend the money again and get something that will last.[/QUOTE]
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Unread 10-03-2013, 01:24 PM   #20
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In my youth, I was in a similar, but different situation. Met a woman and things were going good and we were going back to her place. Right before we got there, she said to be cool to her husband. It was instant sobriety. Being young, I said no worries and we had a unique time all day long. She said that they both like to have their own fun. She thought I would be worth keeping around and spent a few evenings with her over a few weeks, while he was in the guest room. All of a sudden the weirdness factor hit me and really freaked me out and I left because I never knew if I was going to get chopped up, recorded or if he was going to want to join in. You might just want to tread lightly if it's a co-worker.
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Unread 10-03-2013, 01:26 PM   #21
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You might just want to tread lightly if it's a co-worker.
This was the main thing I was getting at with my comment.
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Unread 10-03-2013, 01:29 PM   #22
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I got involved in a couple that where swingers or whatever you want to call it it was fun for a little while then things got weird then we didnt speak for years. I talked to the dude about a year or 2 ago and now he is a super religious Jesus freak.

My honest suggestion if your really curious give it a try then GET OUT don't let drama build and consume you. If it creeps you out just thinking about it just tell the dude naw Im not comfortable with it.
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Unread 10-03-2013, 01:53 PM   #23
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If it was a random guy you met at a bar, go for it. It's your co-worker though. What if he gets weird after you do it with his wife and he turns super jealous? Unless of course you have a small penis, then you have only that to worry about.
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If it was a random guy you met at a bar, go for it.
Pretty sure thats how bad **** happens
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Pretty sure thats how bad **** happens
or how "those" movies start.
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Bang her, bang him, bang the family dog. Just "do It" You will get to be in homemade porn that will end up on the net and then follow you throughout your life....
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I'm not sure how to really phrase this delicately so I'll just come out with the story. It's probably NSFW so keep that in mind.

I've known this guy and his family for about a year. We aren't best friends but I've seen them out. They have a kid who's about 6 or so. Wife is attractive but you wouldn't drool over her if she walked in somewhere. Pretty normal young family.

This morning I come in to work and we were just BSing and stuff like normal. It's just me and him standing around talking about the Rays beating the Indians (So we can now lose to Boston!) and out of nowhere, I'm telling you this was completely unrelated to anything we were discussing, he goes "So bro, have you heard about this new cuckolding thing going around?"

I was a bit confused. I know what cuckolding is, basically a woman saying screw you I'm going to do whoever I want. But I didn't think it was "going around".

So I said, pretty casually, "Yeah man, can't trust women anymore can you? heh."

And he goes "No no no, it's awesome bro. It'd be like having your own little porn star right in your living room."

At this point my OODA loop is completely toasted. I really don't understand what he's saying.

This is when it just starts getting awkward. I think he could tell I was confused so he said he's been doing some thinking and he thinks he'd like to see his wife with another man. But he wants someone who isn't pushy or crazy or a druggy and doesn't know who to ask.

Still, completely oblivious to the situation I've been placed in, I start rambling incoherent sentences like "Well, I mean, I don't know who would be up for that. pretty big thing to do. depends on a lot I guess. Like if you'd be there, or stuff. I dont know anyone..."

Then it happened: "Come on bro, my wife's hot isn't she? Would you do her while I watched?"



I couldn't tell if he was serious, and not wanting to get into a physical altercation I just kind of chuckled and said well I mean she's attractive and everything but that's a big thing I don't know if that'd be cool with you. You should probably think about it, etc. Stuff like that. He agreed and then we small talked a bit more. When it was time for him to go to his office he told me, pretty non-chalantly, that it was on the table and to let him know.

I mean, it was no different than if I wanted to borrow his air compressor or something for the weekend.

It was almost identical in tone to: "Yeah bro whenever you get into that project of yours just hit me up and I'll swing by with the air tool set".

I don't even know what to say to this guy.
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Unread 10-04-2013, 07:03 AM   #30
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I guess he gave her my number (even though I haven't spoken to him since) because last night she sent me a picture message of her cleavage. No conversation or anything. Just "Hey!" The awkward thing is that her wedding ring is clearly visible in the picture.

Not sure what the rule is on pics like that here. She's fully dressed just in a low cut shirt. Looks like its a selfie from in the car?

I'm not sure I can go through with this for all the reasons mentioned. Murder-suicide, internet porn video of me, hubby wanting in on some action, etc. He specifically stated that he wants to watch. "Watch" might mean more though...
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