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Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:27 PM

well thankyou - i hope you're ready...

f3arn0FJ · 03-16-2009, 03:28 PM

bring it.

Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:31 PM

long story short - scott and i broke up - twice in the past week and a half - he can't figure out what the **** he wants - and in the midst of all that, he keeps pulling me in and out of his **** - it's hard because i love him and we've been together for almost a year - we've known eachother for about two - so of course there is some sort of emotional attachment - bottom line i want him to be happy. but he can't make up his mind on what the **** he wants - not just with our relationship but with his life. he tells me that he needs time to figure his **** out and that we need to break up but the next day, he's talking to me like we're still in a relationship. then he doesn't want to talk again because he needs his time, but then he DOES want to talk. he wants to be with me, but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me. it's a different ****ing story all the time. ugh. and on top of that, i'm getting laid off at the end of april so i'm working fulltime right now, looking for an aprtment, looking for a new job to have set up by the time i get laid off, i'm ****ing broke, i'm tired, and i just wants answers NOW GOD DAMNIT!!!!! he says that in a month, he might want to get bcak together, or not. i don't know what the **** to do at this point. AND to make it worse, i still love him....ugh

Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:32 PM

wow...that was longer then i thought

Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:33 PM

and i feel bad because i was a ***** some guy in another thread

f3arn0FJ · 03-16-2009, 03:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Lady_Luck

long story short - scott and i broke up - twice in the past week and a half - he can't figure out what the **** he wants - and in the midst of all that, he keeps pulling me in and out of his **** - it's hard because i love him and we've been together for almost a year - we've known eachother for about two - so of course there is some sort of emotional attachment - bottom line i want him to be happy. but he can't make up his mind on what the **** he wants - not just with our relationship but with his life. he tells me that he needs time to figure his **** out and that we need to break up but the next day, he's talking to me like we're still in a relationship. then he doesn't want to talk again because he needs his time, but then he DOES want to talk. he wants to be with me, but he doesn't know if he wants to be with me. it's a different ****ing story all the time. ugh. and on top of that, i'm getting laid off at the end of april so i'm working fulltime right now, looking for an aprtment, looking for a new job to have set up by the time i get laid off, i'm ****ing broke, i'm tired, and i just wants answers NOW GOD DAMNIT!!!!! he says that in a month, he might want to get bcak together, or not. i don't know what the **** to do at this point. AND to make it worse, i still love him....ugh

Okay, not knowing a whole lot about you, I'm just gonna throw out some ideas. So please don't take them the wrong way.

Theres really not a whole lot you can do about Scott. I would say the best thing todo would be to not answer him for about a week or two. Let things cool down, I know its going to be hard because you love him but it sounds like he needs some alone time and doesn't have the self-control to do it by himself. I have the same problem.

Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:47 PM

haha - ok - sounds good...it's just so frustrating - he would send me messages and i would tell him that the messages needed to stop, he needed to stop calling or texting - he texted me again today and i didn't really know what to do other then point all of this out to him again - which just started another discussion - the same one that we've had 3 or 4 times now in the pst week - but you're right. i just need to not answer. ugh - i feel like i'm being a ***** though if i don't...

f3arn0FJ · 03-16-2009, 03:50 PM

sorry, had to take a service call.....now where was I? Oh yeah,

As far as getting laid off, well that blows. Can you get unemployment? If so maybe once you find a place to live you should take a week and rest. Let crap settle down a little bit. Its your life, you gotta take care of yourself other wise Jobs and boyfriends won't matter.

f3arn0FJ · 03-16-2009, 03:51 PM

your not being a *****. He's being an ***hole by putting you through this. As long as your not leading him on then this is all his own doing.

Lady_Luck · 03-16-2009, 03:55 PM

well - the other thing is that i understand why he wants to take time - we met in a sobriety group - i left the group last week because i just had a different idea for myself - not to get out of control or anything - but i see myself being a social drinker - he's still sober. and still in the group. so its not like he's just being a wierdo and this is coming out of nowhere - i get where he's coming from. and unfortunately, i won't be able to file for unemployment - that would be really nice though. so it's just going to be 'go, go, go' for a while.

f3arn0FJ · 03-16-2009, 04:00 PM

okay, now I see wheres he's comming from. It almost sounded like he was floating between you and another women, but now I understand. So is he more worried about hanging out with you because with you drinking around him he'll wanna drink again? Or is he worried that your gonna get out of control and hurt yourself?

Willy36 · 03-16-2009, 05:23 PM

hello everyone!

lady_luck...i'd probably give terrible advice and i don't know you at all so i'll just say hope things work out for you in the end.

**Nates93yj** · 03-16-2009, 07:35 PM

hey, just stopping in got to do some homework. man i hate that stuff and i finally ran out of money. it blows, knew it was coming sometime but not that fast. now i might acutally have to buy parts i acutally need

just throwing this in

Mike318_ · 03-16-2009, 07:46 PM

I'm so going to hell for sure now. Stupid pecker of mine, always convincing me to do things i know are wrong.

Oh an Hi Jeepers

HilltopperYJ · 03-16-2009, 08:32 PM

i like turtles