I'm not sure how close I am to what you're looking for, but it'll give you a bump anyway...
WJ with 3" IRO + a 10mm OME spacer all around, so about 3-and-3/8". 265-75-16 Goodyear Wranglers.
If you're going to go 4.5" on a WJ with the stock control arms you may run into some difficulty with caster and ride. Most guys go long-arm at that point I believe.
SOA, 8.8 locked, 30 w/95 shafts locked, SYE CV, weber, GM HEI, OBA, BL+TT, TJ flares, SW Talon 12.5K, 35s = Wheeling Jeep.
Laredo, 104K, sunroof, 4.0, selectrac, 3" IRO +10mm, adj trac bar, 265-75-16s Goodyear = DD & Expedition Jeep.