I understand they were doing us a favor letting us come up (for free) and that they arent familiar with us or our rigs abilities. My main problem was that, as you said, he was very emphatic that I shouldn't try basically anything we did that afternoon, and when I brought to his attention that I had a problem with that he was completely unwilling to offer any sort of alternative. That's my main problem. I told him point blank that I refused to believe that there was just the access road and trails where you HAVE to have lockers and no middle ground and he just shrugged his shoulders at me. That's all I was asking for was something in between a 2wd access road and a "lockers only" black trail and he had no answer.
It's not your fault, and again I appreciate you taking the time to put this together. And as far as missing the morning, I'll take at least part of the responsibility for that because a) I was the one who was a few minutes late and b) as you said, I should've gotten your number, so don't worry about that.
Anyway, I just needed to vent last night, so I'm done talking about this. I'd love to come up again sometime and try some of the trails. Maybe by next time I'll have come up with the money for at least one locker so this won't be an issue anymore.