Here's the thing. We would want the kid to kind of look like us. Unless we start looking overseas, it would be difficult to find a half Asian kid. That might be cultural. For the most part, Asians have a strong family connection. It's doubtful there are many giving up their kids here in the US.
It's something we just started discussing since it doesn't look like it'll happen on it's own. Before we were married, we decided that we didn't want kids because we were both so consumed with our careers. As we got older, we decided we were wrong.
What really annoys me is when I see people that aren't good parents with multiple kids or when I hear about women who use abortion as contraception. We're good people. We should have kids. Bad parents seem to pop them out without thought or consideration. We just want one.
I have a cousin in the Philippines who is an immigration attorney. He might be able to point me in the right direction. I think our chances of finding a kid that looks like us would be better overseas.
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