#3 is on the exterior of the door. Its suppose to go on with hand pressure. But if the tabs on the door are damaged, I dunno. Can you peek into the other door and see how the tabs line up? Looking at the window removal instructions, if you need to do that to get at the tabs, it seems to be a PITA.
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