When was the last time you used 4wd since the problem started? When I bought my 98 its 4wd hadn't been used it at least 6 years. I replaced the front diff oil. Took me at least a half hour to get the handle to move into 4wd, after that it was clunky for about 5 miles and then smoothed out. Beats me, glad its working for you.
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