Well after much consideration I think I'm just gonna go with 31" tires in a 3" lift. As much as I would love more lift on 33s, I need to keep this rig relatively useful for road driving. And with the budget I'm on I can't afford the additional cost of the taller lift and bigger tires. I'm ok with this compromise. It will still be a fun rig and I think it will serve us well. We just won't be wheeling enough to justify all the other mods. I may only get to do some light wheeling once or twice a month anyway. Thanks for all the input everyone.