I don't believe the TJ had a factory tow package. Some dealers would install a hitch and wiring harness and list it as a "tow package". I've seen "tow packages" on TJs with all combinations of gearing, transmissions, wheel/tire size, and differentials. Most of them were on rigs with 30" tires and 3.73 gears. I don't remember seeing it on an SE.
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