I replaced my sparkplugs and coil to eliminate them as a cause for my idle problems. (it did not help at all..)
Once it got warm enough to idle by itself i looked under the hood and on the right side on the intake manifold there are a few vacuum lines.
When i started to move them i could hear how the idle changed rpms.
Also heard that i need a new gasket for the EGR tube that sits on the manifold..
Now where can i by new ones? there is one with a one way valve on one of the lines.
The line with tape on it is for the pcv
Here is one of them:
It was this one that changed the idle
The other one: