So finally got around to rebuilding the ECM. New caps in it. It was not nearly as hard as i thought it would be, but i accidentally bought a 30w soddering gun, and yeah....that didnt work to well. So after buying a new 60w gun, easy fix. Car starts right up, idles well. When i jiggle the ECM wires, no change. Thought "Great! Problem solved!".
Running it home, had a few voltage drops, but it would come right back. Then after 10 miles, turned onto my street to pull into the driveway and voltage drop and CEL light. 21 oxygen sensor, and 46 are the codes. Going to disconnect the oxygen sensor next and run it like that, to see if it will solve the problem.