Even then, a budget would be nice to know. We could recommend the most expensive stuff even if you are piecing it together. If you want to lift it a little bit more, use pucks/spacers. If you want to lift it a lotta bit get a different set of coils. What are your goals for the Jeep? Daily driver, or rock crawler, or mudder? The kits done properly that are 5+" are usually long arm kits.
Have you taken a look at this sticky? http://www.jeepforum.com/forum/f13/l...-pics-1089263/
Tons of info on what kits, set ups, etc. members are using to achieve the look/function of their ZJ.