Guys, you're doing it all wrong. Take it from a young man who has been happily married 8.5 years, and we dated almost 5 before that. We are doing a master bathroom renovation project at our house now. She scheduled out the work, came up with a budget, and is shopping around for the things we'll need, looking for deals. My weekends are totally devoted to the project up until Thanksgiving, except for two days I'm going to football games with my dad. I'll just have to do more during the week those weeks. But after that, I should be able to start doing things to my Jeep whenever I please, no questions asked. And it being right before Christmas, gift cards for 4WD places is all I'm asking for, from everyone! As she is soaking in that nice freestanding tub, with the dimmers on the lights, looking out the window, I can be down in the garage! Plus I get a nice walk-in shower out of it, a larger bedroom, and we're already measuring so we can fit the absolute largest flatscreen HDTV in the cabinet in the bedroom. Samsung has a 39 inch model that will fit juuuuuust right! She gets her laundry room on the main level and not in the basement, with nice new front loaders. I'll get a bumper and some lights for the Jeep in a few months. She gets a nice marble top vanity that is oh so pretty. New tires! She gets a walk-in closet (finally) in our 45 year old house. Can you say suspension?