If all your trying to accomplish is running the 36" swamps then just do a spring over and call it good. But don't waste your money on buying a kit. All you need is new spring perches, Extended brake lines, a drop pitman arm, a SYE kit, and a CV driveshaft. I also know plenty of people who run 38's and larger with a spring-over and 2.5" lift springs. But if ya wanna go real large buy a 4.5".
I also highly recommend getting new axles, the 44's you talked about would be perfect. no need for a 60. Hell since your spending all that money drop a V-8 into the mix.
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