Sorry to tell you 1-5-6-3-2-4 is the correct firing order,..for all straight sixes.
There are 2 different Top dead centers
One is of course 180 degrees out
The other is the compression stroke.
You can put your finger over and open spark plug hole as you crank the engine over you will feel the air push around you finger.
This is when you are on the compression stroke.
You Cannot change the rotation of the distribtor. It is what it is.(clockwise as viewed from the top)
You don't have to pull the distibtor no matter what. Yank all the plug wires off of it. Find the correct TDC for #1 now place the #1 plug wire on the cap in whever it lines up with the rotor. Now going in a clockwise roatation go
1-5-3-6-2-4 and you are done.
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