First... I would not have gone crawling around the shop when there is still a load of EMTs walking around. Guy just had an adrenaline dump, and here you come asking about your jeep.
Second.. Im going to assume that you have a less than mint XJ. Being in Mass, Im also thinking its as bad as mine is under there, if not worse. Sounds like bolts have been snapping off inside the unibody, which is not uncommon. Rustbucket jeep, and a budget lift... turns into a major deal.
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